Assignment: Share a lesson you learned from your Father that still sticks with you to this day.
My dad has always been my daddy. People get a little giggle every time I call him that. He's a man of many and few words all at the same time...if that makes any sense. He's taught me a lot of invaluable life lessons throughout my life and I would like to share some of them with you...
#1 "I've backed up more miles than you have driven!"- This is something I've heard since the day I started criticizing the man who taught ME how to drive. I have since used it on my husband when he tries to criticize my driving. LOL!
#2 There's nothing wrong with gambling just as long as you aren't gambling away the grocery money.- My dad loves to gamble but he always lived by that mantra. He would "grease" my palm before entering a gambling establishment because he KNEW that's exactly what I would have to do in order to enjoy myself...Thanks Daddy!
#3 You can't take it with you so you'd might as well spend it while you're alive.- He spoils himself and his family, now, when we can truly appreciate it and be thankful.
#4 No matter how bad of a driver you are, Daddy's will always understand and "take care of it".- Ummm...ya, this is a big one! Let's see, there was the time a transport trailer sideswiped me in my mom's mini van (that I wasn't suppose to be driving...ooops!). The time my heavy foot "threw" rocks up and damaged some guys truck and I drove away...the cops traced my dad's truck back to my dad at his business (I might share the full length story of this one someday!) The time I was washing his truck (so I could borrow it) and backed it up with the door open and it caught on the carport pillar and practically ripped it off. The time...well, you get the picture!
#5 Daddy's will let their daughters "break out" on their own but they will always be there to catch you when you fall. -I was a stubborn, irresponsible young adult. On more than one occasion he paid my rent and helped me out of my credit card "situation". Thanks Dad!
#6 Daddy's always remember when you made them proud and almost always forget when you've disappointed.- My favorite "proud" moment that my Dad likes to tell all the time is how I problem solved how to get a bunch of fish down to my grandparents using my dolly carriage when I was like 5 years old (another great story, another day). He never seems to bring up the multiple times I was a jacka$$!
#7 Daddy's will break the law if it benefits their daughters learning opportunities.- My dad started to teach me how to drive 6 months before I was eligible for my learners permit. Ya. He ROCKS!
#8 Daddy's will let you get away with a lot of $hit but they will NEVER tolerate disrespect towards their wife(your mom).- I don't want to go there but he'll know what I'm talking about. It's the only time I can remember my father being VERY angry at me.
#9 Daddy's work hard. Really. Hard.- My dad owned and operated his own Electrician business. He showed me that anything worth having is worth working for.
#10. No matter how old you get, you'll always be Daddy's baby!
I miss you soooo much and can't wait to see you...only 35 more sleeps!
oooh, too sweet!
ReplyDeleteNumber 1 and number 6 -- are wisdom for a child and parent to live by. Enjoyed reading about your special relationship.
ReplyDelete#4...the time u hit a rock with the ranger sending your friends spilling out onto the ground!?!? Lmao!!
ReplyDelete:) a good post ..
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